Bare Necessities: Bringing My Dog to the Disney College Program

This post will be focused on how to bring an emotional support animal/service animal with you to the Disney College Program. I do have a couple really great princess stories that I'll be ending this post with though, so if you're here for some cute stories, just skip ahead! However, if you are interested in looking into the process of bringing an animal with you on the program, read on!

Bringing an animal on the DCP isn't an easy process, and having a dog down here is a lot like having a child. While most CPs can go out after long shifts, or head to the parks for fun adventures when they're done working, making sure that my dog is cared for is always my first priority. It has, however, been totally medically necessary to have her here with me.

My neurological pain condition has been acting up pretty badly for the past few months and has continued down here. No amount of medication the doctors have prescribed has helped me long-term, so when I'm having a bad pain day, cuddling with the dog is often the most I can do to help the pain. She has also been working to alert me to my medical condition, so she is technically a service dog in training. However, in my apartment complex, she is considered an emotional support animal. Basically, she is allowed everywhere, including the parks - except for Disney College Program property! It can be a little frustrating, but overall we have been able to work it out!

First things first, let me backtrack to the process of bringing an ESA to DCP housing. The link to the paperwork can be found by clicking here. It is a little awkward to fill it out. It is meant for a workplace accommodation, but you have to write it as a housing accommodation. It takes some time to think about the right wording, but I recommend reaching out to your doctor to help. You then have to send the doctor form to your medical provider to fill out. For an ESA, typically a psychologist fills it out for you. However, since my dog is here for my neurological condition, not a psychological one, my neurosurgeon filled it out for me. After that paperwork is done, you fax it over to Disney workplace accommodations.

Within a few days, you should receive a call from housing and they'll ask you a bunch of questions about why you need the ESA, and you basically reiterate what you wrote about on your form. It was a little nerve-wracking to be honest, but it lasted about 5-10 minutes. I had a little discrepancy because my neurosurgeon wrote on my paperwork that I needed the dog 24/7, and I was only requesting to have the dog at home. I would later try to get her approved as a service dog in training, not for work but just to be able to take her around housing property, but that request was denied, despite my doctor's recommendation, since I had originally (6 months earlier) requested that I only have the dog at home. Had I originally requested it though, I likely wouldn't have had a problem getting that request fulfilled.

I should mention that the earlier you begin this process, the better. If you have an ESA or a service animal, you must live in your own apartment. While you lose that roommate bonding experience, and it is really expensive furnishing the entire apartment yourself, it really has been nice having my own place. It has also been really helpful with my medical condition. I can adjust the temperature to what I need, I can set alarms at any time of night to take medications, and if I'm in pain, I don't have to worry about being super quiet so I don't wake up roommates.

Disney recently raised the price for one-bedroom apartments (basically, everyone in medical accommodation housing without directly singling them out, since that would be illegal...). This includes people with allergies and other medical conditions, not just ESAs or service animals. I pay $130 a week, but starting spring 2018, everyone staying on property's rent will be that price or under, and ESAs will be paying $200 a week. I agree that $130 is a low price to have your own apartment, however, that isn't a choice for us. Most of us would happily have roommates!

Part of having an animal in your apartment is agreeing to cage the animal whenever you leave the apartment. This was really difficult for me since I do frequently work 12-hour shifts. However, when I found out that there was no size restriction on the crate as long as there was a top, I found this!

Molly actually really loves it in here, and it is really spacious! While I would love for her to have free reign of the apartment, this will be as good as it will get! I call it her castle. We actually thought about bringing it back to New York with us, but we just couldn't figure out a way for it to fit. I've heard rumors that they are now restricting the dogs to a smaller space unfortunately, so definitely check up on that. It is a shame since that is an awfully long time to cage your dog without someone helping to let him or her out. I personally pay for my dog to go to a dog sitter close to where I worked a few days a month, and it is totally worth it! You may also consider living off-site. Check out "Disney Cast Member Apartment/Roommate Finder" on Facebook for short-term leases. Just proceed with caution, as these people don't necessarily work for Disney, and haven't had background checks like the people in DCP housing.

I hope this information is helpful! For more information and to see an apartment tour, request to join "Disney College Program Emotional Support/Service Animals." There's a bunch of awesome people that are eager to help!

And now for some princess stories!

• In the boutique, we pick one child as our "forever princess," and I found mine this week! Her name was Princess Raquel. Her older sister put the trip together for her, her mom, and brother. They lived in Florida, but neither of the younger children had been to Disney World. Visiting the boutique was a surprise for her and she was so in awe of the experience. She was 10, so she was an older princess, but it didn't matter. We talked about how we both enjoyed painting (she couldn't wait to try paint by number like her fairy godmother in training), and she told me I had "the voice of an angel." When she saw herself in her grand reveal, her reaction was priceless, and when I told her that she was my forever princess, her jaw dropped! She was just so sweet, and I'll never forget that sweet smile!
• I had a princess from Germany recently who cried when she saw herself in the mirror! It was hard to communicate, but I learned some German along the way, and she loved hearing me try to pronounce the words in German. She sang "Let in Go" in German to everyone who I pulled over to listen, and she just wanted to give all the hugs in the world! I know that she'll never forget about this experience, and that is the best feeling in the world. 
• I asked a princess what she liked to do when she wasn't in Disney world, like extra-curricular activities and stuff like that. She said, "I like to go home after school, eat Halloween candy and Lays, and watch movies." Enough said. 

That's all for now! Thanks for reading!

When You Wish Upon a Star - I'm Back for Fall '17!

I can't believe I'm saying this (well, typing it), but I have decided to return to the Disney College Program. I've been on my program a little less than two months, and I was lucky enough to end up in the same role (Fairy Godmother in Training) AND same location (Cinderella Castle)! There's about 6-8 CPs (college programers) each semester in the castle, so the chances of me being placed there were very slim. I feel truly blessed. There must be some fairy godmother looking out for me!

This program is a little different than the last because I've had some crazy things with my health. My last program, I did have some neurological pain from the pain condition I have called trigeminal neuralgia. I believe I even mentioned it on this blog. Since that time, the pain has gotten even worse, and has required me to have brain surgery about a year ago. I was supposed to have surgery right about this time, but postponed it so I could do the college program. I'm glad I had the opportunity to have this experience before battling another surgery.

But enough of the serious talk, my favorite part about this blog is keeping track of the princess stories! I've already had some extra magical moments with some princes and princesses with extra challenges, including some Make-a-Wish families. I'm grateful for the people who set it up so I could work with them (they had to do some rearranging). These families hold a special place in my heart, so it means a lot to add some extra magic to their vacations. There have also been some unexpected magical moments, some heartfelt and others funny. I hope you enjoy!

• I often ask the princesses trivia questions. One of my favorites is asking, "What princess has three names?" This particular little girl was thinking for quite some time and was totally focused on finding the answer. Finally, she said "Aurora." I was so impressed! I asked her what her three names were, and she said "Au-ror-a." So cute! Her mom and I were cracking up!

• I asked one princess what her biggest wish was. She said it was to be a doctor. I asked her why, expecting her to say that she wanted to help people, and she replied that she wanted to be a doctor so she could make a lot of money and buy herself a pretty car. At least she was willing to work for it!

• I always ask what the family is celebrating, and one little girl said she thought the trip to the boutique was a reward for being nice to a kid in her class with braces. She had just moved up to first grade, but her dad explained that the girl had a severe disability, and that my princess was her only friend. With the help of a fabulous leader, we were able to make some amazing magic! In the lobby, the girl pointed to her mom that she wanted gloves. I told mom not to worry about it, and that fairy godmother had already taken care of it, and as I said it, someone brought her a purse and gloves set (we had already planned on it). I asked if we could take my princess and her sister on the carousel, and the leader said she had sent someone to get dolls for the two girls. I asked if we could have them go on the ride, and when they came off, the dolls would be waiting for them. She thought it was a great plan, and it all unfolded perfectly. My leader, a cash wrap fairy, the FGIT of the little sister and I all hugged in the courtyard because we were so happy about our magical moment. That's why I love working for Disney!

• A sweet family came to visit, and the little princess was adorable! The family mentioned that they all were able to fast passes for the Mine Train except for the grandmother. She was disappointed that she would be sitting it out, so I suggested letting them know their situation at the front of the line and to see if they could help out. I was pretty sure it wouldn't be a problem. By the end of the transformation, the grandmother was overtaken with emotion at seeing her little granddaughter dressed up, and seeing her excitement gave me an idea. I called over a leader and asked if we could make some magic happen with a fastpass for the grandmother. When I presented it to her, she started bawling and gave me the biggest hug! She cried into my shoulder for quite some time, and then she told me that I wasn't just her granddaughter's fairy godmother, but I was her fairy godmother, too. It is such an amazing feeling to know that I was able to create what I hope will be one of her favorite memories from her trip. I know that when they look back at that ride photo, our time together will be linked to that, and I felt like I was able to make a difference. What a great feeling!

• One day in the boutique, I saw a princess, about 9 years old, wandering around near the dressing room, with her mother anxiously following, then racing back to the dressing room, where her other daughter was getting ready. I told her I would take care of the daughter who was roaming around, who had some special needs, so she could take care of her other daughter. Once they were ready, someone suggested I be assigned to that princess because of my background, and I'm so glad she did. The only language I heard from her was purely echolalic, though she appeared to be enjoying the experience. At the end of her transformation, her sister's was still being completed. Instead of leaving her on the bench, I told her mom I would sit with her until sister was done, so she could enjoy that magical moment. She plopped herself on my lap, and we started playing with a handheld mirror, which she had a great interest in, and I joined her in making silly faces. After making "kissy" faces, I told her not to kiss any frogs. She then looked at me and gave me an unexpected kiss on the cheek. For someone who couldn't use words to express her gratitude, she did a pretty good job with her actions. It was certainly a special moment. 

• Like I mentioned above, I like to do princess trivia with the kids. One day, I asked a little girl who the very first Disney princess was. She responded, "ME!" I felt like my work there was done. 

• I recently had a guest come in who had a couple of staples in her head and wasn't able to have her hair done. She was so disappointed, and while the family was understanding, they were disappointed, too. A coordinator arranged for me to work with that princess and to do her makeup and nails. I found out that the mother packed nail polish remover in her bag and it exploded all over her clothes on the plane. What a rough start to their trip! I pulled over the coordinator, who had an Ariel doll ready to give to the little girl (she was dressed as Ariel), and explained the mother's situation. She was able to contact the hotel, and I wish I could see the look of surprise when they entered the room that night as the hotel prepared a special surprise for when they returned home. As I was asking the princess her wishes, she looked over at here sister and her matching doll, and wished for one of her own. I told her that I bet Fairy Godmother would hear her. We said the magical words, and the doll appeared. It was a good reminder that you can take what could have been a totally negative situation and make it a positive experience. 

On a closing note, I was really excited to receive a guest compliment! It was something I wished would happen my last program, and just never did. I know people appreciate my hard work, but it is really special when they send something in because it means you left a lasting impact. This was such an amazing surprise and it literally made my week!

That's all for now! Thank you for reading! Next post will be all about Molly Mae and our adventures in DCP housing!

Reflection - 1 Year After Disney

It has officially been one year since I left the most magical place on earth. It is hard to believe that just a year ago I was creating magic everyday and experiencing it for myself each evening. Now that I've had a year to reflect, I wanted to compile my thoughts about the program, and how it has affected my life. 

When I was in the break room in the castle one day, one of the girls who had completed the college program and returned to work in Disney told me that it would feel like a dream after you left, and that my time in Disney would not feel real. I just couldn't believe her, sitting there exhausted after a long week of work. I couldn't be more wrong.

As soon as I came home, my whole time working in Disney really did feel like a dream. You forget so many of the little details. I'm so glad I documented my experience so I can look back. If you are planning on doing the DCP, I highly suggest it. It was hard at the time, but well worth it. Every time  had a memory, I put a very condensed version on a post-it and posted it on my apartment cork board with the title "Magical Moments." It made documenting my experience much more manageable.

When I came home, all I wanted to do was talk about my experiences. My mom got tired of it real quick. Some people wanted to hear every detail. Others were satisfied with a "my program was amazing - Disney treated me really well - I loved my program," quick response, which is absolutely fine. I found myself delving into Disney podcasts, helping future college program students, and doing anything I could to bring back some of the magic. Because the truth is, it is really hard to leave that fantasy world and come back to reality. I really enjoyed presenting to fellow classmates about my experiences, and helping them practice interviews.

Motivating myself in school was more difficult that in the past. I just wanted to be back in that castle, making magic, rather than spending endless hours reading textbooks and planning projects. However, it did teach me that if I wanted to have a job that paid enough for me to take frequent Disney vacations with my future family, I would need to get good grades and work hard in school. Coincidence or not, I did the best I've ever done in college, and have received a 4.0 every semester since returning from my program. Plus, it makes me the coolest teacher when my students find out that I worked in the castle. Nothing motivates students to cooperate more than a reminder that I know Cinderella and Rapunzel since I did their hair every morning!

Doing the college program has helped me in so many ways. The first, and most apparent, was when I applied to work at Build-A-Bear. I mentioned that I worked in Disney and they were sold before I said anything else, and everything I did say, they loved because Disney truly teachers you what customer service is all about. Unfortunately, I couldn't continue working there because I was allergic to the fluffer, but I did enjoy my time there because it reminded me of Disney!

Working in Disney also taught me hard work, to appreciate life, find the good in everyone, and how to bring a little magic into everything I do. I always thought that I would miss visiting the parks more than anything after leaving my program, but I was so wrong. What I wish more than anything would be to work again in that castle again, make dreams come true, and make more memories, both heartfelt and comical. Yes, I miss the rides and walking down main street, the sweet taste of cotton candy while watching Wishes fireworks show, chasing down parade floats that carried familiar faces, and riding Big Thunder Mountain Railroad on a cool Florida evening five times in a row with a group of friends. That was all amazing, and I loved every second. But what I miss most of all was going to work everyday, as tired as I was. Yes, my feet hurt more than I ever thought possible, and of course there were days that the heat was overwhelming. There were also days that I wanted to crawl back under the covers when my alarm went off at 6am. But I would give anything to watch the Magic Kingdom's welcome show from the back just one more time, watch Main Street USA fill with people, personally welcome people to the castle, find a princess and escort her into the boutique, and say the magical words, "Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo, may all of your dreams and wishes come true" and "Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo, the magic starts with you, woo!" with the rest of the FGITs every morning to warm ourselves up for a day of creating magic. Gosh, I miss it so much.

Lastly, I miss the amazing friends I made on the program. I talk to my two best Disney friends, Tatiana and Angel, every single day, but it is not the same as spending a day in the parks together or staying in a Disney value resort just to get the extra magic hours. We created so many memories, and I just can't wait for the day we can all reunite in Disney together. Luckily, one of my best Disney buddies, Amanda, lives close to home so we can see each other more frequently. Tatiana lives just a few hours away and we had the chance to get together this January in NYC.

A magical day with wonderful friends. Tat on the left, then Angel, Belle, me, and a cast member who helped my friends play a prank on me. She said that we made a magical moment in her day. She told me I couldn't see Belle because I joined the line late because I took a nap during the France movie while they went shopping. Then, the CM made a huge deal about someone special there to meet Belle - and it was me! Of course, I was so ecstatic, and we all just laughed and laughed!

Four parks in one day with Amanda!

Reuniting with Tat in NYC to see "Spring Awakening."

Overall, it is difficult to put into words how the college program has affected my life. It was such an overwhelmingly positive experience and I would highly recommend every college student applies to take part in such an incredible internship. You will learn so much, make lifelong friendships, and will have the opportunity to make a difference in many people's lives. It is funny, I had so many photos taken of me while in Disney. I wonder how many unflattering photos there are of me on people's Facebook pages and in their photo albums. One of the Make-A-Wish families I worked with told me that my photo was now their Facebook cover photo. That moment was so special to them that it was the moment of their whole magical trip they wished to showcase. That is such a special feeling. I made a difference, and I miss it everyday. Since my DCP experience has come to a close, I will be saying farewell to this blog....for now....Thank you to those who have followed along the way, have read through my terribly long posts, and supported me on this adventure. If you have any questions, please feel free to email me at noelleeichenlaub@yahoo.com. There's just one last thing to say. Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo - My dreams and wishes did come true.

Be Prepared - Advice for Princesses with Special Needs

*Just a heads up, this post is FULL of information, so it will be lengthy. However, if you are planning a visit to the boutique, it is definitely worth the time to read through it! If you aren't preparing a trip, read at your own risk!

As a special education major, I was often asked to pair up with princesses with special needs. This always created magical memories for myself and the princess, and it was always a joy working with them! During my time at the boutique, there were times that I wished I could jump back in time and give a parent advice about the experience before they arrived. While this post will help any princess prepare for the boutique, the focus will be on preparing a princess with special needs for the experience.

As all parents of children with special needs know, preparation is key, and hopefully these tools will create a more magical experience for your family! At the bottom of this post, I have included a written social story. Due to copyright reasons, I am unable to include pictures. However,  I have included links next to each step of the story so you can find the pictures and put the story together using those photos.

First things first, coming in with a "game plan" about which hairstyle your child would like is important. There are four styles to choose from, though they are phasing out one of the selections.

1. Fairytale Princess: The fairytale princess bun is by far the most popular choice, mainly because it is the hairstyle that parents (usually) love most. It uses a lot of product. The child's hair is placed in a ponytail on the top of the child's head. The placement is very important because if it is too far back, it can cause "ouchies." If your child has impossibly knotty hair, getting the ponytail to the top is difficult and can be painful, so keep that in mind when making a selection. The hair is twirled into a fancy bun with a very classic look. The hairstyle comes with a tiara and a Mickey clip so "Mickey can follow the princess around all day long." It was rare for girls to come back and complain about the hairstyles hurting their heads, but when they did, it was almost always because of the fairytale. While you may love this style, your princess may not, so please keep that in mind.

2. Disney Diva: The Disney Diva is a hairstyle that makes dreams come true, and I will explain why! When I first saw this style years ago, I just didn't get it - but after working at the boutique, I see why it is a popular option for the girls! The Disney Diva is a long hairpiece with short pieces teased on the top to create what appears to be a bun, with long hair flowing down the back. It comes in natural colors like black, dark brown, light brown, blonde and red, and a fun color - pink (aka cotton candy hair)! It also includes two Mickey hair pins. So how does it make dreams come true? 1. It is long and curly, and if your child has short hair, those long locks can be very exciting. 2. It comes in every princess' hair color, so your child's hair can match that of the princess she is being transformed into. 3. If your child has super thin hair, it won't matter for this style. It won't frizz or come out with all the gel, and it will guarantee a princess-perfect hairdo for the rest of the day. 4. If your child has braids or cornrows that you would like to leave in throughout your vacation, the Disney Diva can be pinned in with no problems. Still not convinced? Just imagine the smile on your child's face when her hair is blonde like Elsa's.

3. Pop Princess: This is the hairstyle that is being phased out. If your child has difficulty adjusting to change, I would suggest avoiding this hairstyle altogether, as it may not be an option when you arrive. If you have a fidgety princess, keep in mind that this style takes the longest. While it is totally crazy, it is absolutely adorable, especially on the little princesses! Currently, it comes in three colors - pink, purple, and multicolored. It has four twists in the front, and a crazy spiky hairpiece with braids that come down in the back. If it is too crazy for mom, you can talk to the fairy godmother about possibly taming it down a bit. While she cannot change the hairstyle, she can definitely control how crazy the spikes are. The hairstyle comes with four Mickey clips. The princesses who chose this hairstyle were always the spunkiest! I always had a "princess gasp" when this hairstyle was chosen. If you don't know what a princess gasp is, it is that magical moment when a child sees her new hairstyle for the first time and loves it - her jaw drops, and she gasps. Hence, the princess gasp.

4. Color Star: The color star is absolutely gorgeous, and super natural, with only a little product in the back. The hairstyle is always changing, so it can include anything from color streaks to a hairpiece to clips. It is something you may want to let your princess know before she arrives so she is not surprised when her hair doesn't look identical to the picture. This hairstyle has seven twists that meet in a ponytail, and it is my favorite style. The child's hair isn't tucked into a bun or hidden by a hairpiece, and I like that you can still see her real hair. I also love that the child's head isn't drowning in gel. If your child has a lot of allergies or skin conditions, like eczema, this might be a good choice since little product is used. The hairstyle usually lasts a long while depending on the length and texture of the hair, and I highly suggest it. ***Make sure to put sunscreen on the exposed skin in-between each row. This skin is not usually exposed to the sun, and it will burn. 

Most Comfortable Style: Diva
Most Natural Style: Color Star
Most Crazy Style: Pop Princess
Most Classic Style: Fairytale

It is important to agree to a hairstyle at home, as the boutique is very stimulating, and the selection process can feel a bit rushed, depending on the fairy godmother. Let your child pick without your input first and see what she chooses - if it is not a hairstyle you care for, as the child why. When I asked the children, more often than not, they had a very well thought out answer to this question (ie. I've always wanted to have long hair, I want my hair to be red like Ariel, I love the colorful braids, I like that my own hair is showing in the back). These are all answers I received after asking the princesses why they wanted a specific hairstyle after their mothers forced them to get a style they didn't like. The saddest answer I received was "I really wanted the diva, but my mom wanted the fairytale, so I'm getting this one because she liked it."

At home, you may want to create your own "hair menu" using pictures from google. That way, your child can see the style on several other girls, and you won't have to worry about them picking a style "because she has blue eye shadow" or "she's wearing a cinderella dress." Sometimes, the girls would pick a hairstyle because they liked the model's makeup or dress instead of the style. When the girl sits in the chair, have her tell the fairy godmother her choice before the fairy godmother shows her the big menu to avoid last minute changes!

The hair selection process was by far the most stressful part of the process. Talking about the decision before the transformation begins will create a more positive experience for you and your princess. 



There are other ways to prepare for your experience. Please keep these tips in mind!

6 Months Before Your Trip

• Make an appointment!
• You can make an appointment for the boutique 6 months in advance. Try to get an early appointment if possible, before the park opens. After your experience, you can (hopefully) be the first on line for Anna and Elsa. You can always meet the princesses, then go to your photo shoot. I do suggest getting your photos taken before heading on the Mine Train, or other roller coasters. 
• Sometimes the waits can be long the day of your transformation, and your hairstyle could take 30-45 minutes to complete, so it is very important to book your dining and fast passes around that window. I suggest leaving at least 2 hours after your appointment time before booking the next part of your vacation (that includes checking in, getting changed, the transformation and getting your photos taken). 
• If your child has special needs, I would personally try to book the castle. In the castle, the child can sit on your lap (in Downtown Disney - DTD for short - this is not allowed). DTD is also much smaller, so there is less room for families to sit, and the small room makes it really loud. If your child is sensitive to sound, this is important to keep in mind. The lighting is also brighter in DTD. While the castle is more difficult to book, keep calling and hopefully some availability will open up. 

2-3 Weeks Before Your Trip

• Check for lice and nits
• It is actually against the law to work on hair that has lice or nits, so fairy godmothers in training are trained to quickly check for these conditions before they begin. It is a very brief process, but if something is found, then confirmed, the child will not be allowed to continue in the process. It is so sad to come in expecting a hairstyle, and to leave with just makeup and nail polish. But there is a solution - check your children before you arrive! 
• Most of the time, parents are unaware of the condition. It is easy to catch lice when at camp, or when kids come back to school, and if you don't know what to look for, you could be blindsided. It has NOTHING to do with how clean your child is - in fact, they prefer clean hair. It just means that your child came in contact with it at some point. Nits are generally found behind the ears and at the bottom of the neck. The actual bugs are often found in the middle of the hair. If you see white or yellow specks in your child's hair, gently rub your finger over that strand of hair. If the specks move, then it is dandruff. If the specks do not move, it can be nits. This website gives more details on how to check: http://kidshealth.org/parent/infections/common/head_lice.html#
• Do NOT worry about your child catching any friends while at the boutique - Disney is very specific on their cleaning policy if a case is suspected, and they clean the chairs and tools used very well between each child - better than your local beauty salon. You will get to take the brush home that your child uses, so you know your child is the only one to use it!
• Depending on your child's needs, discuss the experience, and start reviewing the social story, or watching youtube videos. 
• Depending on your child's sensory needs, order her own dress, shoes and accessories
• Disney does provide beautiful gowns available for purchase - some kids find them to be very comfortable, and others find them very itchy. 
• There are dresses specifically made for this purpose - less stiff, doesn't make noise when the child walks. Check around online to see what costume fits YOUR princess' needs!
• The dresses they sell in Disney end mid-calf for safety reasons. When kids are going on rides, it is easy to trip on a long dress, so when you make your purchase please keep that in mind. It may be fun to have a long, frilly dress, but imagine your child walking through the park or onto rides and picture how uncomfortable that can be. At the same time, if your child is expecting a gown to reach her ankles, prepare her that this will not be the case.
• If you order a dress, try it on at home! Some parents don't do this, and if it is too small or itchy, there is nothing the fairy godmothers can do to help. I've also seen ripped dresses from home, or manufacturers defects. The common thread- none of these kids tried the dresses on at home.
• **Just a quick tip - some parents think they can save money by purchasing a dress in Downtown Disney or another store on property - but all products are the SAME PRICE on property! If you would like to save money, try purchasing at the Disney store before you go, or through another retailer. 
• While the boutique has a great dress selection, it does NOT have every princess! Pocahontas and Mulan dresses are NOT sold in the boutique - though the fairy godmothers can sometimes make a Pocahontas dress magically appear. If your child has her heart set on a specific princess and won't be happy without it, purchase your dress in advance. Sometimes Cinderella's mice don't make enough dresses in a certain size - or something else crazy can happen - and by bringing your own dress, you can take away any uncertainty.

1 Week Before Your Trip

• Select a hairstyle with your child
• Continue to check for any lice or nits, because your fairy godmother cannot complete the transformation (dandruff, eczema, cradle cap and similar conditions are fine - the fairy godmother CAN do hair with any of these conditions!)
• Keep in mind that fairy godmothers cannot work with hair that has open wounds - so if your child has stitches, she will not be able to have her hair done. So - take extra caution the week leading up to your transformation! 
• Pack a brush to bring to the boutique
• While your fairy godmother will provide you with a fine-toothed comb, and possibly a larger comb depending on your child's hair, a comb from home is almost always welcomed, especially if your child has a sensitive scalp. Usually the moms that bring combs brush their child's head before coming in, and they don't need it, but for those kids that have impossibly tangly hair, the amount of brushing the mother does before coming in doesn't even matter- the child can still have knots! Fairy godmothers totally understand that. But for princesses who are miserable when having their hair combed, please do it in advance. Your child (and fairy godmother) will thank you later. While any comb is welcome, I've found (along with other fairy godmothers) that wet combs cause the least amounts of "ouchies."
• Continue reading the social story or watching youtube videos with your child
• Pack your princess dress, shoes and accessories
• I highly suggest purchasing Memory Maker
• Not only do you keep all of your Photopass photos from your trip with magical shots, but you also get all of the photos from your photo shoot. These are professional studio shots, and totally worth the money in my opinion. I have purchased Memory Maker several times and I LOVE it!

The Day Of Your Experience

• Arrive at the boutique 5-10 minutes before your appointment time
• The children are seated based on appointment time, NOT arrival time, so the earlier you get there, the longer you will wait.
• Brush your child's hair
• When you check in...
• If you have your own dress, and you would like the fairy godmother in training to place it in the dressing room, let her know here!
• If your child has special needs, especially sensory difficulties, let them know up front and ask if they can make a note for her fairy godmother. They will usually try to pair up your child with someone with a background in this area.
• If your child speaks a language other than English, or uses ASL to communicate, ask them if there are any fairy godmothers available who can speak to the child in the language she is most comfortable in. 
• The waiting area can get packed. If there are two adults available, have one adult wait for your child's name to be called in the lobby, and another wait outside with the child. While it is best that the child is present, as long as a parent can respond when the name is called and you are just outside, there shouldn't be any problems. To be safe, just let the fairy godmother at the front desk know your plan so they don't think your child left and is not getting a transformation. 
• Let them know if your child is celebrating a birthday!
• When you meet your fairy godmother
• Let her know about your child's needs. You don't need to give your child's diagnoses, but letting her know that she is sensitive to sound, touch or smell is important. If your child feels more comfortable with her glasses on, address that (I wear glasses, so I know how important that is to me, but for fairy godmothers who don't wear glasses, they may not be as quick to realize this), if your child wears hearing aids or has a cochlear implant, ask that the fairy godmother leaves them on for as much as the process as possible. If you know your child will have a hard time sitting, let her know, and she can try to get a buddy to make things easier for your child. Whatever your child's needs are, let your fairy godmother know. 
• If your child is a cancer survivor, or has dealt with severe medical issues, your fairy godmother may be able to create some extra magic. Understandably, some families would rather not talk about these difficulties while on vacation. However, I can say that when families told me their personal struggles, I was able to create some personalized magic for those children that I wouldn't have been able to otherwise, so it is worth mentioning if you feel comfortable. 
• If your child has allergies, ask to read the bottles of hair product. I've seen some parents be concerned about the detangler because it smells fruity, so it is worth reading if your child could have a reaction.
• During the transformation
• Look for "ouchie" faces. The fairy godmothers are behind the children, so unless the child is vocal about her hair being pulled too hard, the fairy godmother will not know. However, children will often make "ouchie" faces without making sounds - if your child is uncomfortable (and you know if your child is really in pain or just being dramatic), let your fairy godmother know. Chances are, she had no idea, and will adjust immediately!
• If your child is in hysterics and does not want to sit in the beauty chair, ask the fairy godmother if the child can sit on your lap. Downtown Disney does not allow this, but the castle does, so keep that in mind when booking.
• Watch how many rubber bands your fairy godmother is putting in the hair. The thick black rubber bands shrink in the heat, and if more than 1 is put in, it can cause ouches later. The thin black rubber bands don't change in size. If the fairy godmother uses more than 2 black rubber bands (or more than 1 if your child is extremely sensitive), ask her to use one thick black and one thin black. It will save your child from being in pain the rest of the day. 
• Sometimes with really thick hair, 2 thick black bands are needed- however, these often aren't wrapped more than twice, so you shouldn't have a problem, and the fairy godmother might need it to secure the hair. However, if your child has thin hair, and more than one thick black band is being used, don't hesitate to something to the fairy godmother. 
• The children will be faced away from the mirror throughout the transformation. If this anticipation will cause anxiety for your child, ask to allow the child to feel her hair with the fairy godmother's hand guiding her hand. Personally, I found that to be very effective. However, if your child is really itching to see the mirror, ask her fairy godmother to show her the hairstyle early, and maybe save the grand reveal for the makeup. While every mother wants that picture perfect grand reveal, if your child is full of anxiety and stress, a picture just isn't worth a meltdown. 
• Take lots of pictures! You will want to remember every moment! While the photo pass photographer will get certain shots, it is worth taking your own pictures on your camera, especially if you don't have memory maker. 
• Enjoy - watch your child be transformed into a princess, and enjoy it! This will be one of the happiest memories of her childhood, so take in every second!

This is guide should help you prepare for the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique experience - assuming you get an appointment. But what if you can't get an appointment to the boutique? Hopefully these tips will help:

If you CAN'T get an appointment....

• If your child is under 3 years old, you will not be allowed to make an appointment. Some parents lie about their child's age, but honestly, 2 years old is too young to appreciate the experience. Most children this age find it difficult to sit still for the amount of time it takes to do their hair, and the products have not been tested on children under 3.
• Arrive at the park as soon as it opens, and head straight to the boutique. Sometimes - not always- there are cancellations. If you arrive first thing in the morning, there is a better chance they can accommodate you. Check every day you are in Magic Kingdom. 
• Sometimes, the fairy godmothers have no-shows, or their fingers are faster than usual and there is open availability midday. Throughout the day, every time you pass by the castle, check and see if there are any spots available. I wouldn't suggest going out of your way to check - this happens infrequently.
• If your child is over 12 years old, but has cognitive special needs, they may allow her to participate if there are cancellations the day of. It is not a guarantee. I did have one woman in her 40's. She did have a tour guide, so I do not know if that made a difference. She is the only princess I saw well over 12 that participated. I have seen girls older than 12, but younger than her, get turned away. It honestly depends on a lot of factors, but it is worth a try. The worst they can say is no. 
• Pixie dusting is FREE and you do not need an appointment! Just ask a fairy godmother for pixie dust, and she will be happy to put pixie dust in your hair. Pixie dust is for everyone! If the boutique is closed, just head to castle couture and they can give it to you there. They will still say the magic words and make your child feel like the princess she is!
• Pirates League is a great experience open to pirates and mermaids ages 3 and up - and all the way to adults! If you have a princess who is too old for the boutique, or you cannot make an appointment to the boutique, consider giving Pirates League a try - it is a lot of fun!

Now, I have talked an awful lot about the princesses, but WHAT ABOUT THE BOYS? Some boys don't want face makeup, so Pirates League, though an amazing experience, may not be an option. However the boutique has a fun option for boys, and it is very affordable! The knights package has spiked hair with gel, with hidden Mickey's throughout and pixie dust. If your knight does not want his hair touched - that is okay too. He will still receive a sword and shield! It is actually cheaper to purchase the knight's package than the sword and shield individually (they lower the prince since its in a bundle).

I'm sure I missed some details or forgot a tip or two, but hopefully this guide will help you prepare for the experience! Whether you have a princess or a knight, the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique experience is absolutely incredible. It is worth every penny to be treated like royalty. Nothing makes your child feels as special as his or her grand reveal, and it is an experience you will never forget!

If you have any questions, please feel free to email me at noelleeichenlaub@yahoo.com or leave a comment here. I am more than happy to help!

As promised, I have included a social story. Youtube has a ton of Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique videos from check in to when you leave, and it may be more effective for your child. Definitely give it a try! However, if you know that having a social story in a booklet form will work best for your child, I have included every step of the experience here. 

SOCIAL STORY (Based on the Cinderella Castle experience in Disney World)

*I apologize for not including pictures. Due to copyright infringement, I cannot post photos with the story. However, I have included a link to a corresponding picture. I tried to pick shots without people in them, but there a few pictures available for some of the shots that I needed.  This is written assuming the child is selecting a dress from the boutique for purchase. 

1. First, we will walk up to the castle and go to the check-in desk. The might be a line. We might have to wait. Click Here for Picture
2. After we check in, we will wait in the lobby. I will pick out a dress. It will be too small for me to wear, so the fairy godmother will get a dress in my size. Click Here for Picture
3. When someone calls my name, we will go to the dressing room. There is a mirror in the dressing room. Click Here For Picture
4. When I am done getting dressed, we will wait for my fairy godmother in the lobby. Click Here for Picture 1 Click Here for Picture 2
5. When someone calls my name, we will walk to the chair. I will meet my fairy godmother. Click Here For Picture (Left Half)
6. The fairy godmother will give me an apron. If it itches my neck, I can put it on my lap. I will not see myself in the mirror until she is done. Click Here For Picture (Right Half)
7. The fairy godmother will do my hair, makeup and nails. Sometimes, another fairy godmother will help. That is okay! Click Here for Picture
8. When she is done, I will get pixie dust! Click Here for Picture
9. The fairy godmother will turn me around in the chair. I will see myself in the mirror. People will take pictures! Click Here for Picture
10. We will all walk to the counter to pay. I will say goodbye to my fairy godmother. I will take home my makeup and nail polish. Click Here for Picture
11. We will walk to the photo studio. They will take pictures of me. The light may be bright. The photographer will tell me where to stand and sit. Click Here for Photo
12. We will go on rides. I had fun at the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique! Click Here for Photo

Mother Knows Best - A Magical Mother's Day Post

Working in the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique, I met so many different types of parents, especially mothers. The mother was almost always the one accompanying the child through the experience. This is a short (and somewhat comical) list of some different types of mothers I encountered during my time in Florida:

1. The over-involved mother: This mother picks her child's hairstyle, makeup shades and dress. She will ask if her child will get "the glitter" about 20 times, which the fairy godmother will reply, "we don't have any glitter here. If its anything like pixie dust, which she'll get at the end of her transformation, then I'm sure I would love it!" This mother takes about 1,000 photos, purchases the most expensive package available, even if the child "doesn't want the crown" and/or has a hand-sewn dress from home.

2. The under-involved mother: This mother is only here because her daughter is old enough to pick up the phone and make her own appointment. The child may pay for the transformation herself with birthday or babysitting money. The child savors every second of the experience, and the fairy godmother will work extra hard to make this child feel extra special.

Unfortunately, I've met (or haven't met) several parents like this. Two stories stick out - one was a little princess and her sister. Her parents only looked at her sister, and barely acknowledged my princess. When it was time for her pixie dust, it took about 5 minutes to get her parents to stand by the chair. When it was time to turn her around just seconds later, they were gone. The photographer brought the parents back, told them it was important, and that they needed to stay until she was done. It was so sad. A couple weeks later, I had an older princess. Her mom did not even bother to come - the princess was sent with a friend of the family, whose daughter was also having a transformation. The woman only took pictures of her daughter, and it was so depressing. I asked the girl if she wanted her photo taken, and I did a little photo shoot for her. At the end, she paid for the experience herself. She was so grateful, but my heart really went out to her.

3. The envious mother: Occasionally, there is a mother who wishes she was in the beauty chair. This mother often requests pixie dust for herself, and occasionally requests a selfie with the fairy godmother. While some may think they take away some attention from their child (for example, the woman who thought it was appropriate to take out her weave and comb it in the boutique), usually they are just moms who want some special magic, and I personally don't see anything wrong with that.

4. The "it is her special day" mother: This mother will respond to any question you ask with "its her day." I love these mothers! She will never guilt her child into getting a hairstyle she doesn't want. She takes photos of the entire process for the scrapbook, and often ask questions about the hairstyles so they can replicate at home, and touch up the next day. The parents of these children usually leave with the biggest smiles.

5. The misleading mother: This mother will tell you that her two-year-old just turned three, even though she just turned two. This princess can be spotted the moment she walks in the door. The fairy godmother is nervous to put product in her fine hair because she is so tiny, and the child struggles to sit in the chair after five minutes.

6. The magical mothers: This mother and princesses have treaded through rough waters together, and the experiences they have gone through have made them both stronger. This special mother/daughter duo brings more magic to you than you bring to them. Their stories are powerful, and their joy contagious. These are the princesses whose names you will never forget, and the smiles that leave an imprint on your heart. For mothers day this year, I wrote about some of these extra magical mothers that I met. I hope these stories bring you some joy, and encourage you to reach out and say "thank you" to any magical mothers that you know.

This Mother's Day, I spent the day transforming little girls into princesses all day. Before coming down here, I thought about how special the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique experience would be for all of the girls and how exciting it would be for them. It really is magical! But I didn't expect how much I would be affected by the parents, especially the mothers. The mom who had to deal with her 5-year-old going through radiation and losing all of her hair, then seeing her sit in the beauty chair watching her now long hair put into twists. Or the mom who started crying because she never thought her daughter would be able to have her nails done because she can't unclench her hands, only to see the sparkly gold polish being painted on. I think of the mom who had a daughter born 3 months early, tearing up as her 4-year-old had her hair and makeup done, never thinking she would see this moment. I think of the mom who recently adopted siblings who were abused, and was so afraid how they would respond, and the joy in her eyes when these children who had gone through so much were smiling and laughing the whole time. And the mom of the last princess I had today, who told me they quickly planned a trip to Disney World because her husband is being deployed for a year in a couple of weeks - and I think how hard that will be to explain to her 3-year-old who left the boutique in her daddy's arms.

This Mother's Day, not only am I so appreciative of my own mom, but I'm celebrating those mothers who fight battles that we all pray we'll never have to face.

The different mothers I met while working in the BBB have impacted me more than I thought possible. I am so grateful to have met so many powerful women, and so many special princesses.

Practically Perfect - Switching Apartments, More Princess Stories

When picking out the song for this post, this was the first thing that came to mind. For the most part, my college program has been perfect - my role was even better than I thought it would be, I have made the most incredible and thoughtful friends, and I love going to the parks just about every day! However, the song is called practically perfect - and that means almost! While my apartment was absolutely fabulous, and I had an amazing suite mate, I was having some roommate issues. Most people do on the DCP - and when I say most, I haven't met anyone without a story. To make a long story short, there were several safety issues in my apartment with my roommate, and when I tried to address it, the concerns were ignored. My suite mate encouraged me to contact housing, and when they heard about the issue, they wanted me to go to security immediately. Basically, after a couple days of stress (and comforting from my mom, Tatiana and Amanda - thank goodness for them), housing asked me if I wanted to stay in the apartment or if I wanted to move to a new apartment. For people looking to do the program, this isn't common for housing. Usually, they sit everyone in the apartment down to talk about any problems, and its usually quite a process. The fact that they offered me the option almost immediately gives you an idea of how uncommon the predicament was. 

While I knew it would be a hassle to move to another apartment, and that I would miss Natalie, I knew it would be worth the stress. I already feel more comfortable in my new place than I did in the other - everyone is friendly, sweet and welcoming, and there is a real community feel. I'm still bringing in things from my car, but most things are set up and I'm really happy here. I also feel safer for several reasons, which is obviously really important =) 

Now that I'm settled in, I can say that my program is NOT practically perfect - it IS perfect! I literally have it all, and I feel so grateful!!!

So now that the whole apartment change situation has been explained, I have more princess stories! Get ready because there's a lot!

- Prince Philip and Princess Tia were very special siblings. Prince Philip was an older brother to a beautiful princess with special needs. He was the absolute best brother I have seen in my life. His sister was having trouble sitting in the chair, and her fairy godmother in training was doing the best she could to keep her still while doing her long, beautiful hair. When I saw the situation, I asked her if she wanted me to buddy, and within seconds I returned with a book and stickers. She was laughing and singing in no time (stickers fix everything!), and she was enjoying every second. We even sprinkled pretend pixie dust in her hair together every time she had an "ouchie" (she was very tender headed). Her brother was with us every step of the way, showing her how to close her eyes for the makeup, holding her hand, fixing her sash, and making her giggle. It was obvious she adored him, and he was just such a great kid. I made him a special pin that said "Brave, Strong, Hero, Prince Philip." He and his family were so appreciative and grateful. After the transformation, and him telling his sister how beautiful she was, I told one of my leaders what a special kid he was. The leaders said we could make some magic for him, so I told him not to leave the boutique until he found me. I ran in the back to get things ready. When I returned, I found him looking for me around the boutique, so I brought him to the lobby. I told him and his family that everyone at the boutique saw what an amazing kid he was. I told him that while it is easy for the attention to go to his sister, I noticed, and other people noticed everything he did for his family, and that we wanted to recognize him. I got to declare him a royal knight, and give him a big sword and shield. The boutique burst into applause for him. Thinking of it now, I'm tearing up. It was such a special moment that was all about him. That's something that probably doesn't happen that often without interruption. His mom was crying pretty hard at that point, and it took all that was in me to hold in my tears until I returned to the back of the boutique. His dad was teary-eyed, and Prince Philip was so surprised and grateful. He couldn't believe it and neither could his family. His mom, who had already given me a big hug after working with Princess Tia, gave me a bigger hug before leaving the boutique. It was such an honor to witness such an amazing kid, and I'm so grateful that my leaders gave me the opportunity to recognize him. 

- People come up to me all the time and tell me I have the best job in the world. I have to stay in character and say, "This isn't a job! This is my school! But I love going to school!" Of course, I wish I could reply, "I HAVE THE BEST JOB IN THE WORLD!" I think my favorite comment came from a grandfather who told me "I can tell you really love your job. I think I had more fun than my granddaughter!" As he left with the pixie dust sparkling on his head, all I could do was giggle because I really do think he had the time of his life! LOL!

- I had a special little princess who said funniest things! When I asked her how she makes her grandma and grandpa laugh, she told me she "shakes her butt at them." Later, I told her to think of a big wish. About 3 minutes later she said, "I want to kiss a prince! I'll take Snow White's." Hey, its a girl who knows what she wants! Haha

- Every princess comes with a story. Some girls have known about their trips for months, while others find out the morning they come into the boutique! I always like to ask if it was a surprise trip, or if it was a trip they've been anticipating for a very long time. For example, I found out one princess won her trip just a couple weeks prior to their arrival from a TV show in Canada! However, there was a princess who had the most heartfelt answer to this question that you could imagine. She told me that her grandfather passed away in August, but it was his wish before he died to send his whole family to Disney World together. With the help of a very generous grandmother, the family had the chance to go together. I already had a celebration button waiting for this princess, but once I found out her story, I asked for a pen so I could personalize this button. The button said "I'm celebrating Pop" with hearts and pixie dust. When her mother saw it, she started crying, and then her aunt cried when she saw it for the first time. Her mother asked if I could make one for all three girls, and I told her I had already planned to make pins for her whole family, and a couple to take home for anyone at home or any scrapbooks. They were so grateful. When the grandmother saw the pins, she started sobbing. We always have tissues handy at the boutique for situations like this, so I grabbed a box to hand out to everyone in the family. Then the grandmother gave me a big hug and sobbed in my arms. You know its a hard cry when you feel the person shaking in your arms, and I just whispered the most comforting words I could think of in her ear. We hugged for a really long time. It made me think of my own grandma, and how much I wish I could have told her I got into the program. She knew how much I love Disney, and she would have been so happy to hear that this dream came true for me. After a lot of hugging and tears, the girl's mom told me "you really are a fairy godmother." While it was such a sad story, it was a special way to honor him.

- Princess Samara was a very special princess. From the moment she walked into the boutique, she told me "I want to look just like Tiana!" While this princess had the most fantastic hair, it was really hard to slick up into a little bun. It took a long time, but we were able to do it! She didn't mind, as long as she looked like Tiana in the end. Her reaction was priceless - with screams and squeals and her jaw dropped to the floor! Her favorite thing to say was "Bibbidi Bobbidi BAM!" She was so sassy and fun!  However, the best quote of the night was, "Not every man is a prince charming!" 

- I had a lovely little princess who so eloquently told me that she has cerebral palsy. Her mom brought her to Florida to see Winter the dolphin. Winter was the dolphin who inspired the movie Dolphin Tale. If you have never seen the movie, Dolphin Tale is about a dolphin who had to have her tail amputated. Due to her special needs, this princess felt a special bond to Winter. After their visit, her mom surprised her with a trip to Disney World! She was so funny. Her mom was so happy with the little things, like me giving her some pixie dust, giving them pins for her teacher, and leaving her daughter's glasses on the whole transformation. This princess had been to the boutique before, and her mom told me that when they come back again, they're going to request me because this was the best experience they've had in the boutique. That meant the world to me. The most touching part of her transformation was when I told her mom to close her eyes and make a wish. Her mom told her daughter to tell me what the wish was, because it will always be her wish until it comes true. The princess replied "that I will walk one day." 

Yeah, think about how you would reply to that without tearing up!

There are so many other stories I could tell, but this post is already long enough. Thank you for reading!!

Breakaway - My Time With a Special Princess Tiana

Usually my posts won't focus around one princess because they are all so cute and say such funny things! Just today, I asked a little girl what she wanted for her birthday and she said "crutches." I asked her why, as that was a pretty odd and random wish and she said "just incase." What 6-year-old just thinks of that!?

But there is one very special princess that I just had to write about. The Fairy Godmothers in Training in the boutique are always looking for their "forever princess," meaning the princess you'll never forget. When you "turn 1,000 years old" and become a real fairy godmother, this is the princess you'll take care of and make her dreams come true forever, like Cinderella's fairy godmother. I'm fairly certain nothing will top my time with Princess Naelah. You'll understand why I chose "Breakaway" for the song title once you read the post. I wish I had just one picture from this very special evening, but unfortunately, the princess takes those pictures home and I'm left with special memories.

Now, here is the story of Princess Naelah - or should I say Tiana.

Princess Naelah was a very special princess from the moment she walked in the door. She was one of the last girls in for the day, so the boutique was pretty quiet. Princess Naelah pranced through the door, with a special princess spunk that is rarely matched. She was quickly escorted to the royal dressing room. That did not stop her from trying to sit in a beauty chair (or two) on her way to the room. Once she had her dress, she was happy to model it in front of the mirror. As she walked past my chair, I looked to the fairy godmothers in the front of the boutique and mouthed "oh my goodness, I love her!" I mean - how could you not LOVE this girl! One of my coordinators brought me her slip and told me that she was all mine and the hairstyle was already picked out and ready to go - it was perfectly ready for a fairytale. She told me to have fun and that I could bring her right from the dressing room. She told me her mom was worried about sizes and she was posing in the mirror, saying "I'm a princess! I'm a princess!" When I saw her in the dressing room in her perfectly tailored Tiana dress, I was not disappointed. She was STILL twirling around in her dress, and it was fabulous. Tiana was her favorite princess. Her mom told me she met Tiana the night before, and burst into tears of joy. So much Disney magic! Finally, it was time to bring her to the chair!

She jumped into the chair with such excitement, and I began on her hair. Another Fairy Godmother came to buddy (meaning she did makeup and nails). We led the boutique in singing "Let It Go" and danced around her whole transformation. It was super magical. Princess Naelah showed us her Simba doll and a fairy godmother ran to get a tiara for the doll. While she took care of that, my coordinator pulled me aside and told me that I would be doing a princess parade with this special princess. This isn't common for our location (as in it never happens) so that was super exciting because I knew it would be very magical for her, and her Mom!

By the way, her mom was laughing and smiling just as much as the princess, if not more. It was so wonderful to see the two of them so happy without a worry in the world. You see, Naelah was a special princess with some extra challenges, so it was so wonderful to see the two of them with no restrictions, where she could just be herself.

Her mom told me that her Facebook was already exploding from comments on her first picture, and I told her that the surprised had only just begun. Tiana delivered a very special gift to the princess, already decked with a Tiana crown, a sash and a birthday button. The weather was a bit chilly that evening, so we had a special winter shawl for her. She and her mom were ecstatic. It is absolutely beautiful and really keeps the princesses warm on chilly nights. Then, my coordinator told me that instead of ending our princess parade at carousel, where I would take her to the line of the ride, I would bring her to the photo studio because Tiana wanted to give her another special gift - a special photo package to remember every moment from that special night. It was amazing.

After giving Simba and Princess Naelah's mom some pixie dust, we took out a special princess book. This book is very special and is very rarely signed by a princess, but there was a special Tiana spot just for her. She signed it with some scribbles, and I wrote her name above in bold letters so everyone who looked through the pages would know about this special princess.

After the book signing, I did a brief princess lesson with her- how to walk, talk and wave like a princess, and told her that while hair, makeup and nails is fun, what makes you a princess is having a kind heart. This princess certainly met that very important requirement. Then, the princess parade happened. Now, if you've ever seen that moment in Princess Diaries 2, where they have a princess parade, that is basically what happened, except it was Princess Naelah in the center, with her mom and I holding her hands, and a group of fairy godmothers following behind. Sorry the quality isn't great, but it gives you the idea.

Okay, the parade wasn't quite as big and there wasn't music in the background, and Princess Naelah CERTAINLY wasn't as shy as the princess at the front of this parade, but the emotion was just the same. We paraded her all around Fantasyland. People cheered for her and wished her happy birthday (did I mention it was her birthday? Best birthday ever!). People clapped and waved and she curtsied and twirled and it was just wonderful. One of the fairy godmothers took her mother's iPad to record so mom could enjoy this moment with her princess instead of worrying about recording it, and the princess had her very own personal photographer to capture each curtsy and twirl.

We ended in the photo studio, where Princess Naelah and I practiced her poses and smiles. One princess posed with Naelah. They didn't know each other, but she had become quite the celebrity, so everyone wanted a picture with her. Another girl who was in the boutique at the end of the day bowed to her and greeted her with "you look lovely Princess Tiana." It took some time, but Princess Naelah finally curtsied back and said hello to "Queen Elsa." It was so nice to see so many girls treating her with such respect and kindness - and it made us all tear up even more, especially her mom who was practically bawling at this point. They took so many photos of princess Naelah in the studio, some with Simba, some with mom, and then pictures of all of us together. It was so magical.

The princess started to give everyone hugs, and she gave me the biggest hug and wouldn't let go. It was amazing. Then her mom started giving hugs too. She grabbed me real tight and said "Oh Ellie, thank you so much!" I told her that while it was all so much fun now, we know that it is not always this easy and fun at home, and that during those tough times to remember that there are so many people that care about her and her daughter, and we hugged again. We had to clock out, so we said farewell to Princess Naelah. When I arrived back at the boutique, I turned around to find that a little princess had followed me back! I brought Princess Naelah back to her mom and told her that she had to stay there. Mom was looking at all of the amazing photos picking out prints and didn't even realize she had followed me back! After one last hug, I returned to the boutique with tears in my eyes and thanked my coordinator for making all of these special moments possible, and for letting me be her fairy godmother. It was truly one of the best nights of my life.

While the princess was so happy and felt so special, it was her mom that truly impacted me. She was so touched and so appreciative of every moment, and when a mom is so grateful, it makes the experience that much better. When we were in the lobby of the boutique, someone said "Oh, someone's mom spent a lot of money tonight to get all that," and it made me so upset. Why can't people just let a child have a moment where she can feel special and included? This family goes through extra challenges every day, and if we could make up for that in the slightest way and give them a special memory, it was worth it. So many people cared about her daughter, hugged her and admired her, and that was so impactful for all of us. I'll never forget this absolutely amazing night in the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique where I found my forever princess.

Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo - My Training to be a Fairy Godmother in Training

So this is probably the most exciting post I'll have on this blog because its something not too many people get to do, and I really apologize for the length! I had 5 days of training to become a Fairy Godmother in Training (aka FGIT), and it was both fun and stressful! Unfortunately, since this post talks about some backstage info, I won't be able to post pictures!

I received my training schedule on my arrival date. I was starting later than most of my friends - my training did not start until Wednesday. Well, Monday morning at 8am I get a call asking why I wasn't at my first day of training! After explaining my situation, they checked my paperwork and saw that I was given the incorrect schedule! They arranged my training so that I would start on Tuesday instead. It ended up not being a big deal, but it sure stressed me out!

So my ACTUAL start date began at costuming where I met my first trainer, Connie. She is super sweet and patient, and she was perfect for my first day. Going into costuming is about the most magical thing ever - you see the costumes from all of the cast members at the Magic Kingdom! Even the checkout process is magical - you walk through a scanner, like at an airport, but it actually reads all of the costume items that you have. Super cool.

We took the shuttle over to the Magic Kingdom. I entered the boutique for the first time, and we took a little walk around Fantasyland. It was so exciting to see everything for my first time as a cast member! After that, we went downstairs. My first day of training was in a tiny room in the tunnels. The first part was information about the boutique and it was a lot to remember. After we went over paperwork, we started working on mannequin heads. Connie taught me and the other girl I was training with, my friend Kayla, how to do the different styles. She was pleased with how quickly we picked them up. Kayla has a lot of hair experience, so she was great right away! Some styles take more practice than others. The first FGITs had four weeks to perfect the styles - we had about 4 hours! After learning the hairstyles, we had lunch, then went back to practice. I got to meet with one of my many fantastic leaders, Paula, who took the time to get to know a little bit about us and why we wanted to work for the company. When people think of working for Disney, they don't think about meetings like this, or the family feel the company tries to create. Disney is really a special place to work. I feel like there are so many people looking out for me, and I feel very lucky for that.

After our meeting, we practiced the styles for a few more minutes, and our day was done! I couldn't believe that my next day of training would be working with little princesses on the floor!

Before I did that, I had Magic Kingdom park orientation. It was the best work orientation you could ever imagine! The day started out with us seeing the opening show and some of us teared up a bit. We had a tour down main street, then around the park. It was a chilly day, so we appreciated our ride in the Haunted Mansion. Who gets paid to go on rides? I DO! I really enjoyed MK orientation, but I was so ready to get started in the boutique!

The next day, I was on the floor in the boutique! I met my second trainer, Ramona who is like my work mom. She is SO sweet and is probably one of the nicest people I have ever met. I loved training with her. She taught me so many tips and tricks and made training so much fun! The first girl I had was super excited to be there. She jumped into the chair! While I knew it was my first time working on a "real" princess, she nor her mother knew that, so I could only freak out on the inside! I tried my best to look calm and collected, especially after taking a better look at her short, stringy hair. While a beautiful blonde, her hair did NOT want to stay in that princess bun! Ramona helped me mold the hair and showed me some tricks to keep the strands down. When I turned her around in the chair, she gasped! She was so happy!! I was so glad that the first girl I saw had such a happy grin! When we finish, we bring the princess to the front so they can pay and we can give them a bag and stickers! Then we head to the back to scrub our hands to make sure they are clean for the next princess. When we went to wash our hands, Ramona told me that she felt bad that my first princess had such unruly hair and that she was proud of how well I did! I was really happy to hear that. With every princess, I get better and better, even now that I've been in the boutique for about a month.

Day three I had a new trainer, Maggie. She's really nice, and watched me from farther away. She wanted me to feel like I was on my own. Day four was similar to day three, except I had a new trainer, Dawn. It was very much like Day three. I was feeling much more comfortable. On day five, Dawn taught me how to work podium. It is a bit stressful, but I like it because it is a change of pace. Podium 3 is my favorite because you get to go shopping! You also get to bring the children to the dressing room and its like making magic every few minutes because it is always exciting for the kids to have their dress magically appear in the room! Podium 1 checks people in. This is the most stressful position for me because there is sometimes confusion with reservations. Podium 2 is fun because you get to look at dresses with the girls. You also get the invitations from Cinderella ready for the girls. And podium three you get the dresses from the back and make sure the dressing room looks super magical for the royal families.

That's all of my training! After that, I was on my own! Even now, I can call over a trainer if I really need help, so you never have to REALLY be alone. Every girl is so different. Sometimes the hair is so thin and short, it is nearly impossible to make a bun, and sometimes you have girls with hair so long and thick that you can barely wrap your hands around it. You also have children that will talk to you and laugh and sing your whole time together, and then have a child who will barely say a word. You really have to learn how to adjust to each child - both with the hair and with your personality (if a princess is shy, I won't be as loud or crazy as I am with a princess who is just as zany as I am! That is what makes the job exciting though - you never know what to expect! Coming down, I thought I would really love working with the little princesses most, but I learned that I really enjoy the older girls. I feel like most of the memories I and at the boutique are with older princesses who are old enough to really grasp how special the experience is, and who have wanted to be princesses their whole lives.

I've also learned that working at the boutique is like putting on a show. You ARE a character, and you have to stay in character the whole time! Sometimes parents will ask questions, and you have to answer as a FGIT - questions like "did you have hair experience before working here," or "what are you majoring in at school" or even "how can I work here?!" You never know what people will ask so you always need to stay on your toes! I think my favorite thing to do is talk about the parks and give advice. Sometimes parents will take out a pen and paper to take notes, or pull out a park map and ask me to circle the rides I think their child will enjoy. It makes you feel like a Disney expert, and it is so exciting to share your knowledge about something you love so much!

Now this post is getting super long, and I have to save some info for future posts! But I will post a couple princess stories because some of these princesses are just too funny, and some of these stories very heartwarming!!

- "I'm younger than I look! I look like I'm 16, but I'm actually 6!" (says the little princess in a booster chair because she was so tiny!)

- "Princess Story: I had a 12-year-old princess who was in the boutique for the first and last time since 12 years old is the age limit. She was enjoying every second. I got a magical moment card that said that she was "forever a princess." Something so small meant so much to her that she came back about an hour later to thank me, give me a hug, and take one last picture. It was such a special magical moment.

-  I actually had a little princess tell me that "people die in Disney World." How do you respond to that one.....

- Princess Story: I had a girl one day come into the boutique - she was the last girl I had that day, and it took me a while to brush through her hair so we spent a lot of time telling stories. She told me she had trouble with math, so I taught her the 9's multiplication trick and she almost fell out of the chair because she was so giddy with excitement that she finally understood math. We sang songs and played games and had so much fun. While I was putting on the finishing touches, the mother whispered in my ear, thanking me for making the experience so special for her daughter. Then she told me that her daughter was a cancer survivor so it really meant a lot to them. I held in the tears as I gave her a special button that showed she was an extra brave princess. When I turned her around in the chair, she started laughing and was so happy. The whole family cheered for her and it was really special. While her family spoke with the photo pass photographer, she pulled the handheld mirror in closer. When she didn't think anyone was listening, she said to herself with a bit of surprise "I'm pretty." I bent down to her and told her that she was more than pretty - that she was beautiful inside and out, and she gave me the biggest hug. I'm getting teary-eyed as I write this now, because it is moments like this that you feel like you really are making a difference. Every time that girl multiplies by 9, she'll remember her time in the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique, and how beautiful she felt, and knowing that I was a part of that is the best feeling in the world.

More Than a Dream - My First Days in the DCP

So I've been here for over a month and FINALLY have the chance to post about my first few weeks! I've had a great experience so far - I love my life! I walk into work with a smile on my face, and I walk out with a smile  - though I'll admit after 12 hour shifts, it is a bit more tired of a smile! This post will be about my first few days in the program. I'll put my first few weeks of boutique experience in a separate post!

My first day started early as my mom and I prepared for Day #1. I got a text from my roommate - we were so happy to have been placed together! But it was in Vista Way. Vista is famous for being the party complex - and those of you who know me know that isn't quite my personality! Neither is my roommate's - but we decided to make the best of it because at least we were together!

When I arrived for my arrival time, the first thing I received was a sticker. I didn't realize I would find out my role that quickly - but there it was. I found out I would be working in the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique in MAGIC KINGDOM! The thought of working in the castle everyday is such an indescribable feeling. I started crying in line! I then met with someone who checked my license and social security card, and received my rooming assignment (which I already knew). After that, I got my room key and met with another group to fill out paperwork, then someone went over our schedules with us - I'd be going to casting the next day. After that, someone taught us about safety and another about the academic opportunities available. It felt like a college orientation. After that, I was free to go to my apartment and get things ready! I finally met my roommate, Tatiana (we're literally like twin sisters - our personalities are identical!), and the other girls I was hoping to room with (but wasn't able to). After that, we got lunch and my mom picked up cleaning supplies for our apartment.

My first few days in the DCP were not average. I had a problem with my first apartment - mildew all over the floors, and I got sick from it. I got hives, a sore throat and really bad sinus headaches every time I went in the apartment. We tried to scrub it down, but it just wasn't enough! I was still getting sick. After spending the night in a hotel with my mom and Tatiana, we decided to go through health services and see if we could get moved from the apartment. My mom had to extend her stay to help with paperwork.

A picture of the carpeting - Not sure how well you can see it, but the stains were pretty bad. 

My amazing mother scrubbing the apartment with me and my roommate. 

After a few days of stress,  I was finally able to move to a new apartment! My mom and my uncle helped me move into my new apartment in Patterson, and my new place is beautiful. The only sad thing is that my roommate isn't with me =( Tatiana is still in Vista, though she got them to clean the floors and she has a new roommate who is wonderful. We still hang out all the time though, and I'm glad for that!

But backtrack a couple of days! While we were getting all of the paperwork ready, I still had to get things done for the program. I went to casting, which is really just a lot of paperwork. They had trouble reading my fingerprints, so I had to fill out additional paperwork, but it worked out just fine. I also had a housing meeting - when we walked in the lights were out and there were flashing lights and TVs everywhere! The actual meeting wasn't very exciting, though the facilitators really did their best to make it exciting for us!

Okay, now we're all caught up! On Friday, it was time for Traditions, which is a special class all new cast members must take. It teaches you about the history of Disney, and your purpose as a cast member. They emphasize the four keys (safety, courtesy, show and efficiency), and really drill in your brain "we make people happy." There are lots of surprises which I won't post on here because it will ruin the experience for people who have never been and are hoping to become cast members, but let's just say its pretty magical and half the people in the room cried a few times.


And there you have it - my first few days in the program. My next post will be about my time in the boutique and about my training and making the magic happen there! Thanks for reading!